Tuesday, August 29, 2006

You know, I was just about to write about how nice it was to see a return for our full-strength pace attack, how this was the team that has the best chance for the World Cup since ages, that minus Afridi for Kaneria it is our best Test team, that Inzamam is the Izzat Master, that Woolmer deserves every penny in his job plus some, that...until the Eye went and published this...



...and I thought, "Hmm. Maybe not."

But just for the record, I know there seem to be a few similarities between myself and the list, but I must contest one difference: I love the Jews.

Yep. I love the Jews.

Orange Juice, Pineapple Juice, Apple Juice, Grapefruit Juice...

(Yeah yeah, it's an old one I know I know.)

Friday, August 25, 2006

My goodness, did you realise that Ramadhan is like less than a month away!

But before then, there's the small matter of Sha'ban.

So in the best of Blue Peter tradition, here's a little something I prepared last year...

Sha'ban - The Neglected Month

Wednesday, August 23, 2006

Further to what I mentioned in the previous post and in addition to a few comments from ARG et al:

All practising Muslims should recognise the need to be fully in tune with our families' needs and desires, especially in an ever-increasing materialistic world which demands more and more of our time, and that just simply to maintain financial parity with the rest of society. Inevitably, it is our family that will suffer as a result of it and indeed our Deen itself for as the Prophet (s) said, "the best of you are those who are best to your families."

All possible opportunities must be taken, both 'religious' and 'secular', to keep involved with our children and spouses in every way possible. This is even moreso when in the name of dignity and honour, we expect our wives to successfully bring up our children without recourse to employment and going out in the 'big wide world' to maintain their sanity and take a break from the demands of motherhood. All cultures and communities will deal with this in their own way, but it must be dealt with.

Yet at the same time, and pertinently so with respect to this horrific murder, we can see the difficulties for those Muslims who try and strike this balance but outside the framework that Islam advises for society to adhere to.

Substantiated facts from extended family members and others in the community (and not tabloid gossip) do indeed confirm what we feared: that marital discord due to an illicit affair were from the causes of this crime. Again one is sadly not surprised to discover the history of the two families, their relations and their modern-day understanding of how British Muslims should conduct themselves in flagrant disregard to the religious etiquette that they claim to follow.

And the children?! "For what sin was she killed?" (81:9)

It seems overtly simplistic, obscene even, to suggest that these murders in Cheadle Hulme has its basis in such an innocuous concept of infidelity and/or a failure of realising our familiy responsibilities, yet let this be a warning to all of us: the fitnah and fasad that awaits us as Muslims if we continue to ignore the challenges that contemporary societal life throw at us will only serve to increase the horrific loss of innocence and indeed innocent life as we witness so often today.

This story has dominated the entire discourse of my community, congregation, and acquaintances. What we must be weary of is to fall into the, "I told you so" category as every third person adds a 'new' fact to the tragedy, but rather learn our lesson as no doubt this is and say, "O Allah, protect us from the evils of our own souls and the trials of life."

Wa Allahu Musta'an.

Monday, August 21, 2006

Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji’un.

The tragic news today about the deaths of a young Muslim family on Turves Rd in Cheadle Hulme, 300-400 metres down the same side of my road has understandably left many people, especially the local Muslim community, in a state of shock.

It’s hard enough to come to terms with this horrific crime, but even worse when we learn that the three children were only 5, 7 and 11 years old. The father, a local minicab driver, who is not known as one of our local Mosque attendees, is still missing from apparently four weeks back. The investigation is naturally centred on finding him. Allah knows best.

After our Mosque had been contacted last night, a brother and nephew of the family have now taken temporary charge of affairs but the local community should expect news of Janazah prayers soon if the post-mortem is completed by today as expected.

I was visited by my elderly neighbour today who has lived here for over 30 years. She was absolutely distraught, namely because it reminded her of an incident that occurred in the house of my neighbours on the other side to me. In 1999, A cardiac specialist nurse from Malaysia who married here from Manchester took her life and the life of her two children, 8 and 10, whilst the husband was away at work. My neighbour used to baby-sit those children and it had left her and her husband clinically depressed then, and it was reliving the same nightmare again for them today with the sad news from Turves Road.

At the very least, it is a reminder how we should never take our families for granted and the pressure that they may be under and yet we might not be aware of it due to life just going on as if everything is fine and dandy. Hopefully, we'll all look at our children in our 'safe and perfect' lives here in the West and realise that security and safety is not just about being out of the path of cluster bombs and missiles. Rather, it is about bringing up your family as best as you can by implementing the Islamic ideals of love, mercy and responsibility between you, your spouse and your children.

May Allah shower His Endless Mercy upon those who have left this Dunya, and give them Peace in the Hereafter, Ameen.

Sunday, August 20, 2006

I've always, in the best of pragmatic British tradition, given sports officials the benefit of the doubt when they make mistakes on the field of play, whether in football, cricket, tennis or any other sport for that matter - I'm a firm believer that the incredible technological advances in cameras have allowed for all commentators and third parties far too great a benefit in being able to criticise those officials who are forced to make a split-second decision under pressure and all the rest of it without all such benefits of hindsight etc.

And anyway, I've held the belief that bad decisions seem to even themselves out at the end of the game; you'll have a few bad ones and then gain as a result of a few bad ones and that's the great nature of sport. Look at today for example: Pakistan might have complained about some horrible decisions in the previous and current Test but they don't come much worse than the shocking lbw decision against Andrew Strauss today who looked in absolute imperious form, and looked to be the key player in preventing an England defeat.

But - and this is from a person who has to had to put up with years of criticism, (from people I respect in the game and not just ignorant bigots or armchair viewers) of Darrell Hair as being someone who has a major xenophobic attitude to South Asians, and Pakistanis in particular - I think I'm now convinced. He is an absolute disgrace.

His record isn't exactly that great either. And as much as the Pakistanis have consistently complained against him and his bias (racism possibly?), I can't defend him any more. His ignorant and insulting attitude towards an International team today and hence the Country itself have left him a rightly condemned man.

And condemned with no recourse as well. Don't try to tell me that it was a joint decision between him and Doctrove who is just plain rubbish, not worthy of umpiring a game of tiddly-winks forget an international test-match, or as Boycott would say, "my mum can umpire better him". No, this was all Umpire Hair and all him alone - an independent, biased approach to the game, a direct insult by offering a new ball choice to the batsmen, not telling Inzamam anything, and then his arrogance of not clarifying with 'those Darkies who can't speak English properly anyway' no doubt and forfeitting the game.

He's a joke and I can't find any words to disgrace him further. Someone call that DrM bloke to try instead - he has more insulting adjectives than a thesaurus...

What a sad end to a test-series, especially when relations between the two countries were indeed on the mend, Pakistani players dominating the County circuit and bringing real joy and skill to the British public, and especially with such a turbulent history behind us all as well.

Sigh. Thank God for the Premiership...

Oh by the way, summaytuha...Iman.

:-)

Thursday, August 17, 2006

Anger as father ejected from US

Yes, that is our Azhar miskeen from Cheadle.

And yes, Mark Hunter better do something about it.

Yeah.

Tuesday, August 15, 2006

Please note:

- Shaykh Kehlan's classes are cancelled for the next three weeks.

- The Shaykh's next lesson will be on Saturday 9th September 2006, between Maghrib and Isha at Makki Masjid, Manchester.

- I will not be doing anything in place of the Tafsir lesson so please take the opportunity to revise your notes and enjoy the 'Conference Season' as no doubt many of you will.

- The 'Umdat'l-Fiqh lessons continue after Maghrib at Cheadle Masjid on Wednesday, and the Adab class remains at the same time of after Maghrib salah on Fridays at Makki Masjid insha'Allah.

- Other than that, this site will be quiet for a while as other projects are given priority in these troubled times.

May Allah give us all the tawfeeq to do that which He loves, Ameen.

Saturday, August 12, 2006

Sad news for us in the North West and then personally as well with the death of our beloved teacher Shaykh Abdullah al-Juday's Father, inna lillahi wa inna ilahyi raji'un.

Should anyone wish to pay their respects and express their condolences in person, Shaykh Abdullah will be at the Masjid to receive you for three evenings:

after Maghrib today (Saturday 12 August 2006)
after 7:30pm tomorrow (Sunday 13 August 2006)
after Maghrib on Monday 14 August 2006

Indeed to Allah belongs what He has taken and to Him belongs what He gave and everything with Him has an appointed time. May those He left behind have patience and hope for Allah's reward.

Friday, August 11, 2006

Imām al-Bukhāri (r) narrated that his companions told him, “Hammād (ibn Salamah) once visited Sufyān al-Thawri and Sufyān asked him, “Do you really think that Allah could forgive someone like me?” Hammād said, “If I was to choose between being accountable for my actions by Allah and being held accountable for those actions by my Parents, I’d choose being accountable to Allah for He is more Merciful to me than my Parents.”

Read it again. Think about it.

Thursday, August 10, 2006

Please note: the Adab class is now between Maghrib and Isha.

That's tomorrow, Friday the 11th of August, between Maghrib and Isha.

Be there. Or be bi-adab.

:-O

Tuesday, August 08, 2006

You want thoughts of the last few days eh?! I'll give you thoughts...

Geneva - absolutely the most beautiful place you can imagine. Period.

Geneva Pt II - beauty is going to cost you some serious paisa. Start saving now.

British Airways - deplorable. I don't know what I forgot about how rubbish BA have always been but being a glutton for punishment, I thought I'd put myself through it again. I'll never complain about Paks In the Air ever again...

London Underground - my heartfelt condolences to all those who live in London and are forced to use this ayah of the Day of Judgement. My airways and sanity have been preserved for the last eight years. Until Sunday that is. Never again. Tawbah Tawbah...

George Galloway - I can't say I'm his biggest fan but his latest rant cannot be faulted for the facts. Stylish beard by the way...

Monty - ...who has anything but a 'stylish' beard but is in phenomenal form. Never mind that he battered the apnai today, it's great news for us (what, you thought I was going to support the Paks when they're getting battered??) when we take on the Aussies in the Ashes. More importantly, 'Monster' becoming as popular as he is, has had a much more important telegenic effect: the normalisation of the non-trimmed 'religious' beard and that's great news for all and sundry!

"A British Muslim and British Sikh bowl England to Victory!" - yawn.

The Pathan - there is no doubt who the King Pathan is. After Afridi has been exposed as one of the worst batsmen I've ever seen, step up Sayyid Yunus Khan Saab, who was simply magnificent in every aspect throughout the Headingley Test. He didn't run anyone out, his captaincy excellent, his batting sublime, and his courage simply...well...Pathan. ;-)

The Rest - Well, we do have the best middle order in the world. And that's it. The openers are rubbish. Faisal Iqbal, what is he doing in this team? Kamran Akmal - Subhanallah, they were saying he was the new Gilchrist six months ago. Haha!

Sure, we've got our opener Shoaib Malik missing and our best bowler Rana Naved is not there and would have won us this game with his eyes closed, whereas the quicks Akhtar and Asif would have given KP and Co something to think about at Old Trafford, but we've been generally poor in this series.

Anyway, la ba's; I'm happy for our (blue cap back on again) chances down Under in the Ashes because my pick of keeper last year, Chris Read, was excellent. KP looks tasty, Monty as I mentioned above has left Giles for dead as the best spinner on the Island and I'm happy to have been proved wrong about Bell's talent.

And most importantly, Dean Jones stands gutted when he tried it against "ar-kid" Hashim, masha'Allah, and came out with his serious baistee done. Told.

The Profiling Policeman at Gatwick - hi there! You didn't send me your email so please do. And I told you I wasn't going to write an article about you - no, just mention you anonymously, get more people bewildered, and cause more of a stir that way instead...

Propaganda my friend. It works both ways. Never underestimate the power of the blog.

Anyway, better luck next time. Profiling someone returning from advising the World Economic Forum on all those questions you asked wasn't probably what you were expecting but hey, we all have stinking days from time to time...

But seriously, it was a nice way to kill 90 minutes and I do appreciate the "VIP" service on getting on my connecting flight. But as you said, shame there wasn't a first class section you could've blagged me on to...

:-)

Is that enough for a week then? Good.

Oh by the way, did I mention how lame BA and the Tube are?

Ay na'm.

Saturday, August 05, 2006

The Eye needs no excuse to get involved as only it could...





Wednesday, August 02, 2006

I apologise in advance.

I simply couldn't resist.

:-)

Tuesday, August 01, 2006

I have a deep passion for the sciences of Prophetic narration, or what has been termed Mustallah al-Hadīth or ‘Ulūm al-Hadīth by various contemporary scholars, as do many people who have been brought up in an environment of studying under scholars and contemporary Muhaddithīn who are particularly proficient in hadīth and their various aspects such as Shaykh ‘Abdullah al-Juday and Shaykh Suhaib Hasan or Shaykh Muhammad Sālim wald Udūd (may Allah preserve them all). The whole subject is a truly fascinating area of study.

But what has been specifically on my mind of late has been the whole topic of criticism – by that, we mean criticising those who narrate hadīth to ensure they are not making mistakes or even worse, lying – which is what the science of hadīth has always been traditionally called: al-Jarh wa Ta‘dīl, or possibly translated as “the Science of Disparaging and Approving Narrators.”

I say ‘possibly’ because this is the whole crux of the matter. The English translation seems very negative and will always require a detailed explanation as to the job of the Muhaddith when it comes to appraising a narration and the entire chain of all its narrators from the person who related it to the Muhaddith himself all the way to the Successor (Tābi‘ī) and then the Companion (Sahābi) and then the Prophet (sallallāhu ‘alayhi wa sallam).

Anyway, my intention is not to give an introduction to this science, rather what has fascinated me is what kind of relationship did the people of Naqd (or those Muhaddithīn who specialised in finding hidden faults in various narrators) actually had with those narrators. What I mean by that, is that often, a major Muhaddith such as Yahya b. Ma‘īn or Imām Ahmad would critically take a narrator down, often quite publicly, and yet know that narrator personally as well.

Can you like imagine that? Remember of course, our major scholars have preserved this science of ensuring only the best and most authentic hadīth get narrated without personal bias and subjectivity against various characters in our history. They had nothing to gain personally, had no conflict of interests, and if there ever were, it would be stamped down upon and spotted very quickly by the other Muhaddithīn who would not fail to take note of such behaviour. Yet still, can you imagine, meeting and seeing a person who on all accounts was a really nice, righteous, decent Muslim yet for some reason or the other, was a danger to the science of narration either through his mistakes, his poor memory, his ignorance, his deviance in ‘aqīdah or some other factor?

There are hundreds of books that detail this science of hadith, starting from the Muqaddimah of ibn al-Salāh to the present day Tahrīr ‘Ulūm al-Hadīth of Shaykh Juday, and they all detail the various nuances and skills required as well as all the different types and variations of faults that are to be discovered in the chains of narrations. Yet, in my experience so far, and certainly not from my bookshelf, I have not yet come across a detailed study into the psychology of the earlier Muhaddithīn in how they preserved any sort of relationship with a narrator they knew yet had criticised or rubbished his hadīth. And if anyone does have something, then please do share it.

I for one would love to understand and master that psychology. We know in our present times and experiences that the art of criticising has been understood to a certain degree. Winters wrote that “Criticism is infectious.” I’ll add then that if this is so (and it most certainly is), then “to respond must be the plague.” And we know more as well. Look at blogs for example. If you were to take a random sample of blogs and monitor them for a while, you’ll find that all they effectively are (in the main) is a critique of various things such as society, ideas, politics, people, religion, etc. Indeed, have a think about the media as a whole and you’ll suddenly discover that the massive majority of what we hear, read, or see is one massive bundle of criticism. Frankly, one could say that us writers / authors / bloggers / lecturers / teachers / journalists / commentators (basically all of us) do nothing else but criticism. Even when we praise, we criticise!

It’s amazing. And I think we should understand its principles a lot more than we attempt to do if it is going to consume so much of our time, because as long as we are more constructive and objective in what we do, then criticism is not necessarily all that bad.

But what lessons have we learnt in modern times, or what questions can we at least ask ourselves to answer? Let me suggest a few:

- Have you all noticed how the more anonymous you make yourself, the easier it is to take another person down?
- Have you noticed the more you distance yourself from someone, the easier it is to be angry at them?
- Have you seen how you can ‘cuss and slate’ someone when they are not there but do nothing when they’re in front of you?
- Have you realised how easy it is to say something, whether negative or positive, when you don’t have to worry about the consequences, or you don’t believe you have any responsibility with respect to what you say?
- Have you seen how easy it is to make reconciliation on the phone, but face to face becomes so much harder?
- Isn’t it interesting how deep the statement, “Look me in the eye” now seems?
- Have you noticed how easy it is to even praise someone lavishly in their absence, much more so than when you are with them? On the same note, you feel like praising someone or something they’ve done but possible perceptions of others makes you hesitate, due to your identity being known?

All these things are very real, and happen all the time to a lot of us. Take this blog for example: there was an (unfortunate) time not too long ago when comments were not moderated and people would write in their 20s, 50s and even 100s of useless comments, virtually all of them anonymous or hidden behind some irrelevant pen-name. They would say the most crazy things, the most ridiculous and baseless criticism and at the same time, the most silliest and over-exuberant praise, all I suggest fuelled by the absence of any inter-personal contact and that devilish air of power than anonymity offers; once comments become moderated and people had to register, then the stat-counters show more and more readers but not even 1% of the numbers of comments – indeed cyber-silence is golden, Alhamdulillah!

And all this goes to show how interesting the psychology and interaction would have been between the scholars of old who were criticising for very valid Deeni reasons and yet had to deal with all the rest of the fallout that must have been inevitable as a result of that. We sit here and lap up all the glory of their hard work but my Goodness, it must have been a stressful job dealing with it.

I was thinking the same thing recently when a group of us met some people that we would have no doubt criticised very easily due to their deviations in the fundamentals of Islam, yet when we were interacting with them, they suddenly became all…well…human! The alarm bells started ringing and confusion started to set in – the whole criticising and disparaging thing wasn’t so easy anymore was it now?

Another take on this could be the recent ‘riots’ at the possible filming of Monica Ali’s new book about Brick Lane, where the majority of the people who were being interviewed didn’t have a clue who she actually was and hardly any of them had even read her book and what she was meant to have said.

Indeed, this follows the general pattern of complaint/riot/anger/criticism and the like; it is far easier to do when we don’t have to think about it, when we don’t have to worry about the consequences, when we don’t have to work out the logic or rationale behind our actions or statements etc.

So is it a surprise then when we read the severe warnings from the Prophet (sallallāhu ‘alayhi wa sallam) to be careful what our tongues say for how often does a single, loose and often instantly forgotten statement come back to haunt the one who uttered it so heedlessly?

May Allah protect us and guide us to that which He loves, Ameen.

The very least this little piece should make us all do, primarily myself as I sit here writing it, is make us reflect how we should conduct ourselves when we naturally criticise, how the early Muslims would do it, how to understand the psychology involved behind it, how not to absolve ourselves of our responsibility to criticise deviation and threats to our pure Deen and yet understand how to deal with the very real difficulties of applying these principles in politically and socially sensitive times today.

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